03 Apr, 2024
Before Amelia gets out of the car at school in the mornings, I sometimes remind her to be aware. Aware of her surroundings, aware of others around her, and to think about how her actions impact the situations she’ll find herself in that day. By being aware we may be able to avoid a dangerous situation, but sometimes more importantly when we’re aware it allows us to perceive how people around us are feeling. fact, there’s a lot of research around emotional intelligence. From Harvard Business School ’s site, “Emotional intelligence is defined as the ability to understand and manage your emotions, as well as recognize and influence the emotions of those around you. The term was first coined in 1990 by researchers John Mayer and Peter Salovey, but was later popularized by psychologist Daniel Goleman.” I’ve got a confession to make… I love coffee, and the quick surge the caffeine provides. I had drunk coffee for years, and I didn’t think it had much effect on me. I’d have a cup right after I got up while I read. Then I carried a cup out the door to work. Right after lunch I was ready for another burst of energy so up to the coffee shop I walked. It was almost like I was part of coffee’s life not the other way around. I started making some personal observations, and I noticed was feeling anxious for no reason. I was prompted to do this because, I’d be in a social setting and begin to feel nervous and jittery for no apparent reason. I started deliberating on my issue and I decided to do an experiment: Only drink one cup of coffee per day. It was life altering. It may sound like I’m exaggerating, but I started to notice things I’d never noticed before. Now that I wasn’t jittery, I could focus on other people more. I started noticing when it felt like another person was nervous or apprehensive. Observing these things has helped me know when to alter how I’m talking to people or just be a more emotionally aware person. A reason some people hire a financial planner is they are aware that there may be things they don’t know and they want help avoiding pitfalls that stand between them and a successful retirement. Barrons recently published some key findings: “The American College of Financial Services has released the results of its latest retirement-income literacy test, a survey of more than 3,700 Americans between 50 and 75 that researchers say establishes a ‘compelling link between retirement literacy and working directly with a financial advisor.’ The survey results indicate that Americans who work with an advisor score notably higher on a variety of measures of financial wellness and retirement preparedness than those who go it alone.” The study also found nearly a third of respondents are going into retirement without sound knowledge of Medicare and Social Security. Steve Parrish, professor of practice at the college, said about the study, “In the U.S., with the exception of Social Security and the comparatively small number of workers with guaranteed pensions, saving for retirement is voluntary. This requires the consumer to know how much to save, where to save it, and how much to draw down at retirement.” Generally, when folks engage a financial advisor, that advisor is focused on investment management only. How do I know this? Because we do anywhere from 12 to 20 workshops each year where we invite people to come learn about Social Security, Medicare, and tax planning for retirement. Many of these people who attend already have a financial advisor but their financial advisor is not helping them with these things. If they were, they wouldn’t be sitting down to visit with us. If we are not caring for the whole person when it comes to retirement planning, we aren’t fully helping them. Comprehensive holistic financial planning involves investments, insurance, healthcare planning, long-term care planning, Social Security optimization, tax planning, estate planning, and ongoing personalized assistance. If you’d like see if you’re on track with the areas mentioned above, just reply here or call our office at 864.641.7955 for a complimentary 15-minute call.